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  Lift Yourself by Yourself Bhagavad Gita – Chapter 6, Verse 5, Verse 6 “Elevate yourself through your own efforts; do not allow yourself to fall.”   I believe I am a reasonable person, striving to live a Dharmic life. But am I truly living up to the person I believe myself to be? Each of us has an Ideal Me —the person we aspire to become.  One of my goals is to remain calm and balanced when conflicts arise within my family. Yet, when these situations occur, I sometimes react in ways that fall short of my ideal. And almost instinctively, I justify my behavior by blaming the circumstances or the other person. This is where I need to pause and reflect. The gap between my Ideal Me and my Actual Me reveals the work I still need to do. I may not control what happens around me, but I am responsible for how I respond. Gurudev Swami Chinmayananda emphasizes a powerful principle in his commentary: the desire and determination to change must come from within me.   No Guru, ...

Yogārūḍha – Detachment Becomes Second Nature In the Bhagavad Gita Chapter 6 verse 4, bhagavan talks about   Yogārūḍha .   A Yogārūḍha is one who is firmly established in Yoga, where detachment from sensory objects and mental distractions becomes natural through practice.  A  Yogārūḍha  is 100% detached. I think about my daily commute to work. When I first started driving, every turn required attention, and unexpected traffic could be stressful. But after years of driving the same route, I become familiar with the traffic patterns. The journey became easier because repetition has trained me to navigate it. Meditation works in a similar way. When I first sit quietly to meditate, my mind is flooded with thoughts, worries, and desires.  I just let the thoughts flow and gently bring my attention back whenever it wanders. Just as repeated commutes helped me navigate traffic with greater ease, consistent meditation will help me navigate my thoughts without g...

  Shama & Dama — From a Slave to the Master Who is really in control of my life—ME, my mind, or my senses? I like to believe I am in control.  After all, I make my own decisions.  But then, why does one unpleasant memory ruin my perfectly good mood? Why do I reach for my phone without even thinking? Why does my mind say "just one more" when I know I've had enough? Perhaps I am not as much in control as I think I am! And this is exactly where Vedanta introduces two powerful disciplines.  Sama — Calmness of Mind  I try sitting quietly for just five minutes and observing my thoughts. It's amazing how randomly they appear!  One moment, I am smiling at a beautiful memory of a childhood friend.  The next moment, I am agitated by the memory of someone who betrayed my trust.   Nothing around me has changed, yet my entire state of mind has shifted! Why? Because I have allowed my mind to become the master, while I have become its slave. In Bha...

  My Efficiency — The Power of the Present (My Present Action) − (My Ego) − (My Hope) =  My Efficiency  In Bhagavad Gita, Chapter 3, Verse 30, Bhagavan Krishna tells Arjuna: “Renounce all actions in Me.” But what does renouncing all actions really mean? Krishna is not asking me to renounce action itself. Rather, He is asking me to surrender the sense of ownership, ego, and attachment to the outcome of my actions. My Ego — The Dead Past My ego is the baggage I carry from my past—my achievements, recognition, titles, successes, and even failures. My past experiences can certainly teach me, but when I become attached to them, they limit my ability to act freely today. My Hope — The Unborn Future My hope, in this context, is my attachment to an expected outcome. Will I succeed? Will I receive recognition? Will things work out exactly as I want? There is nothing wrong with goal setting.  The problem begins when my peace and motivation become dependent on a particular resu...

  My Inner Peace — A Formula from the Bhagavad Gita Bhagavad Gita, Chapter 2, Verse 71 (I)− (My Ego) − (My Desires) =  My Inner Peace This simple formula 👆 is perhaps one of the hardest equations to solve in life! What is My Ego? Ego is the false identity I create around myself—built on my achievements, possessions, fears, expectations, and the constant need for validation. It is the image of who I think I am , rather than who I truly am .  For example, someone disagrees with me, and I feel insulted.  Why? My ego wants to be right. Someone else earns a reward, and I feel jealous.  Why? My ego wants to feel superior. Interestingly, whether I am rich or poor, healthy or sick, when I fall asleep, my ego   becomes inactive. My titles, possessions, achievements, and worries disappear from conscious experience.   Yet, I continue to exist! The Infinite Loop of Ego and Desire My ego constantly wants to prove, protect, and enhance the identity I have...

  What is Dharma? The word Dharma comes from the Sanskrit root dhṛ —“to hold, uphold, or sustain.” Simply put, Dharma is that which makes something what it truly is. Dharma is the Law of Being —not trying to become something, but just "To Be". Borrowing the definition from  P hysics - Matter is described  by its characteristic or intrinsic properties—qualities that help determine what something is and how it behaves. In a similar way, Dharma points to the essential nature of a thing. For example, the Dharma of fire is to burn and give heat. Similarly, we cannot imagine a sun that is cold and dark. Heat and light are part of its essential nature, as we understand it. So Dharma is not merely “righteousness,” as it is often translated into English. It is much deeper. Dharma is the essential nature without which something cannot remain true to itself.   But what does that mean for me ? As a parent, my Dharma is not simply to provide for my children. It is to lov...