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 The Mind Game One - As a student of Vedanta and a sincere seeker, I have been practicing Śravaṇam (listening), Mananam (reflection), and Nididhyāsanam (deep contemplation) on the nature of the mind. Too often, we allow the mind to take charge—clinging to emotions and feelings—tossing us around like a ping-pong ball. But is there something within us that can guide or control the mind?  Yes—the Intellect (Buddhi), the faculty that discerns right from wrong. Then why does the mind so often overpower the intellect?  Is there an entity beyond the intellect? Indeed, there is—the ultimate authority: the Self (Ātma), pure consciousness—the forgotten best friend. The Self is ever-present, the source that animates body, mind, and intellect. It is like gasoline powering a car—when the fuel runs out, the car stops. Or like electricity energizing appliances—without it, nothing works. Similarly, when the Self departs, the body becomes lifeless. This Self is all-powerful, ever-blissful...

  Surrender to Your Own Self Be aware that whatever happens, happens to you, by you, through you, that you are the creator, enjoyer, and destroyer of all you perceive, and you will not be afraid.  Unafraid, you will not be unhappy, nor will you seek happiness. Peace - Can be two things.   1. Peace of having what you want 2. Peace of not wanting what you don't have Endurance vs. Agony Enduring suffering gives it meaning and makes it fruitful. Endurance strengthens and uplifts you, while agony—the restless resistance to suffering—does the opposite. Agony pulls you down and drains your spirit. Or Understand this: whatever happens—happens to you, by you, and through you. You are the creator, the experiencer, and the dissolver of all that you perceive. When you truly realize this, fear disappears. Without fear, unhappiness fades, and the need to chase happiness dissolves. Peace can take two forms: The peace that comes from having what you desire. The deeper peace of not d...

   The Greatest Guru Is Your Inner Self The Greatest Guru Is Your Inner Self.  Truly, he is the supreme teacher.  he alone can take you to your goal and he alone meets you at the end of the road.  Confide in him and you need no outer guru. A strong desire to learn is essential. Without it, even the greatest teacher cannot help. Turn your focus inward. Recognize your mistakes—not to dwell on them, but to learn and avoid repeating them. Ego often stands in the way, making it hard to face the truth even when no one is watching. In such moments, close your eyes and let your inner self speak to your mind. Acknowledge the truth—that alone is the first step toward the right path. To understand the difference between the Body-Mind and the inner self, think of this analogy: The Body-Mind is like a room in your house. The room always exists, but you are not in it all the time. Through meditation, allow your inner self to wander freely and explore the vastness of the Unive...

 What Comes and Goes has No Being True maturity lies in embracing silence. At the core, everything is made of the same essence—the universal raw material. There’s no need to strive to reach it; the task is simply to peel away the layers that hide the “Universalness” within.   Silence (both outside and inside)  sounds simple, yet it is one of the hardest states to attain. Selfless action paves the way to silence—working with what you have, without clinging to results, without craving recognition. In that silence, you gain the clarity to strip away impurities—desires, jealousy, anger, expectations—and uncover the universal reality inside. Remember, everything that happens—whether to you or others—arises from countless factors, and your role is just one among them. Expecting outcomes to match your imagination only breeds misery.  Therefore, what comes and goes is not permanent and essentially has no being. 

 A Quiet Mind is All you Need A quiet mind is all you truly need. When the mind is still, everything else falls into place naturally. Just as the world awakens with the rising sun, self-awareness brings transformation within. When inner energies are freed, miracles unfold. Yet, why is calming the mind so challenging? The harder we try, the more restless and clouded it becomes—almost like a battle we rarely win. The key lies in learning to look beyond the mind. What is that deeper presence within us? It is the “Self”—your wise, steady companion—while the “Mind” is the unruly friend who constantly distracts and keeps the Self hidden. With practice, the Self can rise above the chatter of the Mind and reclaim its quiet strength.

  Awareness What is awareness? Awareness is a natural state—free from desires and fears. It is simply a condition of alertness and inner peace. However, this alertness and peace often become obscured by thoughts, desires, and fears. Most of the time, we remain caught in this mental clutter and rarely pause to look inward for awareness. Just as dirt on a dish dissolves when soaked in soapy water without scrubbing, a mind saturated with thoughts and emotions can become clear by sitting still and allowing positive thoughts to arise naturally. There’s no need to force positivity—when you try to control the mind, it always wins. Instead, let all thoughts and emotions flow freely. Observe them, and allow your inner Self to gently guide the mind toward positivity and awareness.

  I AM THAT - The Living Present This is a brief review and summary of my understanding of  I Am That – Talks with Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj - Sense of "I Am" .  Disclaimer: I am only a novice student of Vedanta and still an infant on the spiritual path, so I ask forgiveness for any misinterpretation of Maharaj’s teachings. The present holds something unique that neither the past nor the future can offer—the timestamp of “now.” It is the only moment that is truly real for the experiencer. As I type this word, it exists in my present. A moment ago, it wasn’t here, and soon it will belong to the past. The “Now” is what truly matters. Life is like a flowing river—constantly moving forward, regardless of the events that occur. These events may be planned or unplanned, but the river keeps flowing. Just as a river has two banks, life has its own boundaries: pleasure and pain. If a large obstacle appears on the banks, the river doesn’t stop; it flows around it. If it were to s...

  Obsession with the Body - 2 This is a brief review and summary of my understanding of  I Am That – Talks with Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj - Sense of "I Am" .  Disclaimer: I am only a novice student of Vedanta and still an infant on the spiritual path, so I ask forgiveness for any misinterpretation of Maharaj’s teachings. Life unfolds as a continuous stream of events. How I respond to these events is entirely up to me. So what is my task? Remain poised. Stay centered within myself even as I live among others. Begin by being aware of my own presence. I feel angry and defeated because my husband yelled at me, and I chose not to yell back. I feel stressed after an argument with my teenage child. I feel proud because I received a promotion and a generous compensation package. I feel discomfort because I have a headache. I feel encouraged because my part-time business is beginning to grow. By observing both pleasure and pain—and continuously returning to poise—I move closer to t...

  Obsession with the Body - Part 1 This is a brief review and summary of my understanding of  I Am That – Talks with Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj - Sense of "I Am" .  Disclaimer: I am only a novice student of Vedanta and still an infant on the spiritual path, so I ask forgiveness for any misinterpretation of Maharaj’s teachings. In general, we tend to define ourselves through the physical world around us. We begin with name and form, allowing everything to revolve around the body. My name is <Name> . I live at <address> . I am a <profession> . I have long brown hair. I drive a nice <type of car> . I love to eat <favorite food> . The list can go on indefinitely. But if we look a little deeper, we must ask: Am I really all of these things? When all of the above changes—or even disappears— I am still remains. Right? Names can change. Addresses change more often than we expect. One day, we will all retire from our professions. Brown hair will tu...

  I am That - Sense of "I Am" This is a brief review and summary of my understanding of I Am That – Talks with Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj - Sense of "I Am" .  Disclaimer: I am only a novice student of Vedanta and still an infant on the spiritual path, so I ask forgiveness for any misinterpretation of Maharaj’s teachings. When I fall asleep at night, everything disappears—my worries, my mind, my house, my body, my family. Someone could move me from point A to point B, and I would not know. When I wake, everything appears again. I recognize my room, my bed, my home. I am aware that my children are asleep in their rooms. I sense my body and mind—perhaps even a stiff neck from sleeping poorly. For this disappearance (in sleep) and reappearance (on waking) to occur, there must be something unchanging behind both states. That is the “I am.” Not the body. Not the mind. Not even the intellect. None of these are experienced in deep sleep. Therefore, the “I am” is beyond t...