Bhagavad Gita Chapter 1 Verse 31 - Panic Creeping in
The Arjuna Disease as Gurudev Swami Chinmayananda refers to it, had overtaken his thinking power. He wanted revenge and victory. But, he lost his mind seeing the enemy as family.
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To expand on confronting your best friend
Imagine the scenario:
You have been best friends for many years. You both have lot in common and have shared many ups and downs in life. However, in the recent past, you notice some change in your friend's behavior. The attitude of your friend has changed toward you. The relationship has become bit formal from the friends side. You can't put your pulse on it.
Your friend creates a distance from you. Then, one day outright you are confronted for something you have not done. The friend does not give you a chance and is very angry at you and stops talking to you after the confrontation. She has blocked you on her phone and social media etc.
You wait for a while and try to figure out if something you did that may have caused this. But you can't think of anything that has happened. Now you gather all your courage and thoughts and want to confront. The outcome may be that you may loose her for ever. So you schedule a meeting.
When face-to face, all of a sudden, you visualize all the good memories with her. All the laughter, silly talks etc. Now you may think that, what am I Doing? Just because she cut me off, I cannot do that. There would be no difference between the two of us!!
I can keep my distance and still keep the friendship. You become the bigger person and give in. The friend in that meeting will say that she wants to totally cut off the friendship. Now you lost your dignity too without knowing the reason. You came in to confront but failed because of the emotional attachment.

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